Happy friendship day!

I wonder what would have happened in life without you…
What good have I done to have found you.

I sometimes wonder, if life would have been the same if you were not there.

You are the one who taught me to be selfless, free, expressive and all those things I wanted to be…

You are my friend, my guiding spirit

No wonder I search you in all my existing relationships

You are a sibling God forgot to give!

Happy friendship day!




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What’s wrong Mani sir?


To begin with, let me not review this film.

I know lots of critics, bloggers alike have ripped it apart and maybe told good things alike.

I have heard more negatives about this film than the positives.

“No, don’t watch it!”
“Mani Ratnam got it completely wrong this time”
“What a waste of a movie”
“I can’t imagine a sensible director making such a lousy film”
“Raavanan? A mistake I did watching it!”
“God my 2 KD went down the drain”

And the whining continued… To the extent that I wowed not to watch this flop of movie ever.

But that freak in me told myself to give it a try and so I did.

I guess even after a year’s release of this movie, I would have managed to write this feature since I am hear to show a deaf ear to all those guys who are still out there ripping apart in shreds a gem of this movie into various bits and shreds.

Poor Mani Ratnam!

I guess talent, name, fame comes with a price. Even when he announced this feature… the critique, blogging continued about this venture and and rest as we all know is history. Movie got released and none I know of till date, liked this movie.

This is where I’d like to come in.

I loved this movie. Quite simply. I mean the Tamil version… Raavanan. And I truly consider this work of his art as one of his best works.

From the starting till the finish… I was quite hooked on to the story. I mean yeah, there are loop holes, some glitches here and there… come on…, let’s give this guy his due. Raavanan is not a bad film at all!

The characterizations of Vikram and Aishwarya are spot on giving some amazing and credible performances. The others do matter and don’t mostly. They matter less and mostly don’t matter and hence I’d not really get into that. That’s where I felt Mani Sir could have given little more thought. But then that’s still okay since most of the films these days do not follow the most common sense and why should we just rip Mani Sir for that sake?

The film has a certain coldness to it which I could feel from the beginning to the end. That’s Raavanan’s character and that kind of encapsulates the entire frames of the movie all the time. The dense jungles, the greenery, the wilderness, the rawness are very well captured in the film. There are few other characters who come and go and in my opinion did well for whatever was written from them. Prabhu, Vaiyapuri (As the Eunuch), Priya Mani lent enough support to carry the story forward. The roles of Prithviraj as Ram and Karthik as Hanuman could have been well written and this is where the movie kind of falters (Though not majorly… but could have been well thought of!)

But I am glad for not having seen the film in Hindi.
I am sure it would not be even ten percent worth for what it was in Tamil. And I just cannot see Abhishek Bachchan in the role of Raavan. It reminds me of a school kid striking a pose in a fancy dress competition.

Music of AR Rahman as usual grows on you.
After listening to them umpteen number of times and then when you watch the film you tend to like the songs in the film. Background score too plays an integral part of the film and has been woven very will into the movie.

Camera work by Santosh Sivan/ V. Manikandan deserves a special mention. This movie wouldn’t have been even half of what it is with out its cinematography something which Mani Ratnams films are good at.
Sequences such as Aishwarya’s intro scene on a boat is just too good, The shot where the camera is held under water and both the boats (Aishwarya and Vikram’s) approach each other, Aishwarya jumping off from the cliff, The rotating shot of Vikram on a lake with the kids… requires special attention.

Dialogues are raw and intense at times. Very well written by Suhasini mani Ratnam.

I missed having watched this film on a big screen.

Dear reader, I truly advise you to watch this film on a big screen or maybe a very good copy that you can get hold of.

If you have already seen it I can’t help much in convincing you otherwise but I am thoroughly impressed with the film.

What’s wrong Mani Sir?
How come you make films for people who like Anniyan, Sivaji, Pokkiri, Villu etc?

My rating
***1/2 out of 5
Director: Mani Rathnam
Camera: Santosh Sivan/ V Manikandan
Starring: Vikram, Aishwarya Rai Bachchan, Prithviraj, Prabhu, Karthik, Priya Mani
Music: AR Rahman
Lyrics: Vairamuthu
Dialogues: Suhasini Mani Rathnam




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You have to move on…

Another death in the family…
The very sentence leaves you dry, as if something is being taken out of your body. Even worse if it’s the person you were the closest. I mean a mom, dad, grand parents, anyone you can’t live without!

I saw in one of my friend’s status messages on a chat window “Mom passed away” and that kind of threw me back. Not because of the what was mentioned, but I could actually see swollen eyes, an eeire house, lots of people in the house, lots of messages, phone calls, weeping, whining, lending shoulders to cry on… and everything otherwise in that order!

God! Its one of those moments we wouldn’t wanna be in anyone’s shoes.
We even pray that this should not happen to even our worst enemies.

But death does come knocking at our door.

And inspite of closing the door on its face, it apparently finds its own way. None we can do!

I tried it almost three times to the people I loved the most My mom, my dad and my grandpa… but then do you get a choice?

Death is nasty. It sucks. It’s heartless. It’s black. It only brings emptiness.
None we love and all we can hate!

I don’t want that to happen ever again… Can I have this wish?

I guess I can’t. Mortal souls do perish some day. How far can we push the limits? And how long?

I don’t think there’s anything that we can do to postpone it. I mean when it happens it has to happen. It will happen.

But then with death comes a new life.
A life ahead full of memories of the past.
Things you did together.
Things that mattered.
Things that made lots of sense and lots of nonsense too!

For you to enjoy these memories…
Don’t you think you need to take a step today to bring that happiness and peace within you and to the people around you?

Take that step today. With yourself. With people around you.

This life is too good. Don’t pray for a better one. Make it a better one.

I challenge you… You will not only have the best memories… You actually move on!




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Live to ask questions :)

An interesting email that I received recently and would like to share with you…

75 questions you should be asking yourself.

An old proverb says, “He that cannot ask cannot live”. If you want answers you have to ask questions. These are 75 questions you should ask yourself and try to answer. You can ask yourself these questions right now and over the course of your life.

1. Why not me?
2. Am I nice?
3. Am I doing what I really want to do?
4. What am I grateful for?
5. What’s missing in my life?
6. Am I honest?
7. Do I listen to others?
8. Do I work hard?
9. Do I help others?
10. What do I need to change about myself?

11. Have I hurt others?
12. Do I complain?
13. What’s next for me?
14. Do I have fun?
15. Have I seized opportunities?
16. Do I care about others?
17. Do I spend enough time with my family?
18. Am I open-minded?
19. Have I seen enough of the world?
20. Do I judge others?

21. Do I take risks?
22. What is my purpose?
23. What is my biggest fear?
24. How can I conquer that fear?
25. Do I thank people enough?
26. Am I successful?
27. What am I ashamed of?
28. Do I annoy others?
29. What are my dreams?
30. Am I positive?

31. Am I negative?
32. Is there an afterlife?
33. Does everything happen for a reason?
34. What can I do to change the world?
35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done?
36. Am I cheap?
37. Am I greedy?
38. Who do I love?
39. Who do I want to meet?
40. Where do I want to go?

41. What am I most proud of?
42. Do I care what others think about me?
43. What are my talents?
44. Do I utilize those talents?
45. What makes me happy?
46. What makes me sad?
47. What makes me angry?
48. Am I satisfied with my appearance?
49. Am I healthy?
50. What was the toughest time in my life?

51. What was the easiest time in my life?
52. Am I selfish?
53. What was the craziest thing I did?
54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?
55. Do I procrastinate?
56. What is my greatest regret?
57. What has had the greatest impact on my life?
58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?
59. Do I stand up for myself?
60. Have I settled for mediocrity?

61. Do I hold grudges?
62. Do I read enough?
63. Do I listen to my heart?
64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate?
65. Do I pray only when I want something?
66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?
67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me?
68. Do I forgive myself?
69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”?
70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?

71. Do I smile more than I frown?
72. Do I surround myself with good people?
73. Do I take time out for myself?
74. Do I ask enough questions?
75. What other questions do I have?




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What a name can and you can’t?

First lets ask this basic question?

What’s in a name?

What’s so great about a person’s name?

I mean yes, if you talk about names like APJ Abdul Kalam, Aamir Khan, Sachin Tendulkar, Mother Teresa, etc you may not ask this question.
But then these names stand for something since the fame that this name has got to a certain person only due to their dedication, perseverance and hardships.
It was not coined in a day. It was all in a day’s work. The name didn’t bring them fame and fortune. It was this person who has given some meaning to their names.

I hope many people understand that.

We have seen too many stars adding an extra letter, name, title to their already existing names only with the hopes that their fortunes go higher and higher.

I mean does it really work?

Sunil Shetty —-> Suniel Shetty
Vivek Oberoi —-> Vivek Anand Oberoi
Tushar Kapoor —-> Tusshar Kapoor
Isha Koppikar —-> Isha Kopikar
T. Rajendhar —-> Vijaya T Rajendhar —-> T Rajendhar (Back again!)

And the very recent…
Silambarasan —-> Silambarasan Thesingu Rajendhar (Apparently as of today) I guess he could have just coined himself as Chimpu… This really sounds rather nice and funny and memorable! (If that’s what they are looking out for!)

Guys c’mon! Who are you kidding?
And why investing so much thought (And of course money) on adding all the extra spice to your name? Instead why don’t you add that little bit extra in your hardwork.
You know that no one cares for your names anyways and everyone knows how good or worse you are.
So why don’t you try to better yourself rather than your names?
Without working on yourself, how can you even expect that the additional S or H or I or T would only bring you kudos?

I mean more than these guys, we must applaud their spiritual gurus.
For turning these celebrities into a bunch of jokers who dance to whatever tunes they play. Imagine talent aside, they actually managed to find fault with their name spellings giving crap reasons like there’s some major issue with their star’s position, rashee and crap… crap and more crap!

Guys, let me tell you… fire your guru first and then look at yourself in the mirror.

Change that man in the mirror and please not his name.




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